I wasnt a DVF habitu, although I had a vintage wrap dress in leopard print
For other degrees of relationships, the width of the hat-band varied from two and a half inches to four inches
Heads will surely turn for these, whatever room you find yourself in
We can only suggest to mourners wearing it that they should pin a small veil of black tulle over the eyes and nose, and throw back the heavy crepe as often as possible, for healths sake. (From Polite Life and Etiquette or What is Right and The Social Arts, written by Georgene Corry Benham, 1891) The Victorian Ladys Mourning Bonnet As a woman moved into second mourning, black crepe bonnets replaced veils
The general rule is that the lighter you go, the less formal it becomes
Place your invitation, then dress its rung