I suggest starting with just a bit of each and adding more only if needed
Lands End Cotton Modal Surplice Maxi Dress Kim @kimair above (read her style interview here) shows how you could wear your summer dress with silver shoes
For example, Black Tie usually isnt required for an evening dinner nowadays, but you can indulge if you want to
This information is only intended to help you cut down on time looking at the wrong gowns, not to make you feel bad about yourself if you dont fit into the right category for your dream gown
( This pattern, you may notice, is quite similar to Butterick 6835 the only difference is that the bodice of Butterick 7172 has gathers rather than tucks, and the skirt is gathered as opposed to circular.) Now that I think of it, I did make one other change to the bodice by adding a button closure down the middle
Those who do not feel confident in heels, even small ones, can reach for ballerinas